Therapeutic Orientation
I believe that what is occurring in your relationships,
work place, community, etc. has a great effect on your emotional
well-being. Consequently, as we work together I will want to look
at how these aspects of your life are affecting you. Also, I may
want to meet with family members or significant others together
with you. Often I can be most effective as a therapist if I can
work with all people involved in a given situation. Sometimes it's
not clear at first how some family members may be involved in a
given problem. Meeting together will shed light on how each person
is affected by the problem and how each person can help resolve
it.
As part of the societal context mentioned above, I
am very aware of how gender, race and economic status affect our
lives. I will bring this perspective into therapy and will encourage
you to look at these issues as well.
I focus on solutions to problems. In our first meeting(s)
I will ask you to detail the nature of the problem, and will work
with you establish goals for therapy. In subsequent sessions we
will focus on solutions to the problem. I usually assign homework
between sessions, and hope that clients complete the assignments.
My goal is to help you to solve the problem as quickly as possible
and get you out of therapy! I believe that therapy does not necessarily
need to last months or years. In many cases problems can be identified
and solved in a matter of weeks. Other situations require longer
work. When we have solved your problem(s), I will encourage you
to take a rest from therapy until another issue arises that you
would like to work on. Therapy does not need to be a full-time,
lifelong endeavor! I will do my best to help you discover the tools
you already have to solve your own problems. I hope you will do
your best as well by being open, willing to share information and
feelings, completing homework, and letting me know how and if our
work together is helping. There may be times when I believe that
I am not the right therapist, and will refer you to someone else.
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